An Open Letter to Police Officers

Officers,

I’m writing this post for you today because I am tired of hearing about your brothers and sisters in blue being killed simply for doing your job. I’m tired of the disrespect and suspicion shown you by the press and some members of the public. I want you to know they don’t speak for the majority of us, and certainly not for me.

I read with horror the story about New York City Police Officer Miosoti Familia’s death on Wednesday. She was stationed in a mobile command center on a dangerous street in the Bronx when a recent parolee walked up to her window and shot her in the head. Thankfully for the tax payers of New York, he was shot and killed later as other officers tried to apprehend him.  Officer Familia was 48 years old and had been on the force for 12 years. She left behind a 20 year old daughter, 12 year old twins, and an elderly mother for whom she cared. She was not involved in a felony arrest or even a traffic stop.  She was simply monitoring a street, trying to keep local citizens safe. She had no connection to the parolee. Her only transgression was wearing the uniform and being on duty at that particular time and place.

Crimes like Officer Familia’s assassination have become far too common.  Already in 2017, 28 officers have died due to violence in the line of duty.  That figure represents 41.8 percent of the 67 officers which have died this year. But more seriously, it represents a trend toward the targeting of officers for no other reason than they represent the police. Last year saw several attacks on officers, most notably the sniper attack in Dallas which killed five officers and wounded seven more, as well as a similar incident in Baton Rouge which left three officers dead. Both shooters claimed to be angry about the treatment of black people by white police officers. That’s an odd motive since slain Baton Rouge Police Officer Montrell Jackson happened to be black. I think the more important color in both cases was blue. Police blue.

Officers, I was raised to respect you and to seek you out in times of need. I was raised to be respectful of you regardless of the nature of our interaction.  I’ve had positive and negative interactions over the years, but I’ve always tried my best to show you respect. Today, it has become acceptable to hate, and even attack, police officers as a form of protest over perceived abuses. This was inevitable, given a national administration prone to instantly and publicly blame you after any instance where an officer killed a suspect. It didn’t matter the facts were yet to be known about the case. It didn’t matter that the involved officer’s life, as far he knew it, was about to be over. It didn’t matter that he might have been saving the lives of others as well as his own. All that mattered was making political hay out if it by fanning the flames of divisiveness and racial hatred. Of course, the true believers in the press were perfectly happy to assist by showing partial cell phone videos, interviews with crying relatives, and cherubic photographs of the smiling victim. Never mind that smiling kid had just tried to take the officer’s gun. All of this then became the constant news cycle loop for days, followed by detailed coverage of the protests and statements by Eric Holder condemning the police. Miosoti Familia got press coverage for one day. All of these ingredients have created a fetid stew of hatred which is now being acted out in violence toward all of you.

I’m sure your work is very satisfying. Helping people, protecting them everyday must be fulfilling and why most of you do it. I can think of no higher calling. But it comes at a high cost. Every day when you put on your badge, you know today could be your last day, your end of watch. That’s true for all of us, but your odds are higher when you run toward the gunfire instead of away from it. The courage it takes to do your job leaves me in awe. Every day, you see people on their very worst day. You are expected to maintain a level of professionalism in the face of everything from disrespect to homicidal rage few can muster and you are not allowed to make a mistake. Not one. Every action will be critiqued, second-guessed, and likely tried in the court of public opinion if not a court of law. Even when it is proven you acted properly, your career could still be over. And, you do all of this for meager pay and very little appreciation from those you protect.

I want you to know there are many, many of us who have the utmost respect for you and appreciate the sacrifices  you and your families make to keep our streets safe. I want you to know what is shown on cable news is not representative of how most of us feel. Most of us are more likely to buy you a cup of coffee or pay for your lunch than to swing a fist at you. I know you make mistakes. I know you accept the fact that if you make a mistake which costs someone their life, you are held accountable. But you deserve justice, just like anyone else. It is a sad state of affairs that finds us at time where the badge makes you a target. Please keep your head on a swivel, be safe, and know you are appreciated and respected.  If necessary, I and many others have your back. Thank you!

Paul G. Avery

The Frustrated Americans

Terry Smith

Dear Paul,

Thank you for your thoughtful article. I think most cops know that the majority of people do appreciate our efforts. I should say that they are the reason we do our jobs but in reality, I’m not sure if that is true. At times I would say it is and yet, there are times, I know that I would do it for the one person that needed help. While I certainly appreciate your describing our actions as courageous, I surely don’t feel courageous. I just do what I do because it needs to be done, and it’s what I do. My motivation is in standing up for those who can’t, or won’t, stand up for themselves. I just can’t stand a bully. I have never been the victim of bullying but I hate it just the same. And bullies MUST be dealt with less they continue terrorizing innocent people.

As a rookie, I was taught that the use of force, even when justified, is ugly. It never, ever looks good. My experience has proven that teaching to be true. I would love to see every officer wearing a bodycam as it would help shed light on the many lies that have been told on good, honest cops. Yes, it would shine a light on “bad cops” and that is a good thing. But I have experienced lies from teachers, lawyers, doctors, scout leaders, business professionals, homemakers and the clergy. A little truthfulness in these situations would be helpful.

I am quiet pleased that we have now had a person of color elected as President of this wonderful nation. I am, however, sad that it was the charismatic racist, Barack Obama. The man had the Bully Pulpit and such an awesome opportunity to unite the various groups in the country. Instead, he frequently made inflammatory comments about peace officers before there were any hard facts available. It was much like the racist statements made without facts by the Mayor and the Prosecutor in Baltimore. Except in this case, it was made by our national leader. Have minorities suffered unfairly in this country? Yes. Does racism still exist? You betcha! And it exists in every nation on Earth. And in every socioeconomic group. And in all races. And it is ugly. And it must end. But when the President stands in front of the cameras with the mindset that “now it’s OUR time,” the divisiveness will surely grow. And that is exactly what happened. I do not think that it is behavior which Dr. King would have appreciated. Rather, the very election of President Obama speaks loudly of a growing equality among the races. I had hoped he would have worked toward building bridges but we all know that he didn’t care to work toward that end.

So, you are absolutely correct in the fact that this has lead us to where we are today. Hopefully, we will see some wounds start to heal and people start to build on what we have in common rather than our differences, important though they are. Again, I thank you for your heartfelt message.

Sincerely,
Terry Smith

Paul

Terry,
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! I’m very happy to hear the opinion of someone that walks the walk. I’m glad that you and your fellow officers understand that most of us support you. I hope you’ll share this with your fellow officers as a reminder that we appreciate them!
Thanks for reading and for keeping us safe!

Paul

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